Successful Parenting is No Coincidence: Why It Requires Choice and Hard Work
Many parents today operate under the delusion that raising well-adjusted, Pious children is an automatic byproduct of birth. They provide for physical needs, attend church, and hope for the best, yet often find themselves surprised when their children stray from family values. As Curline Matthews outlines in her reflections on a 39-year marriage and ministry, successful parenting is never a coincidence; it is a deliberate, strategic choice requiring persistent hard work. It is not a sporadic emotional application but an ongoing involvement that spans from birth to adulthood. Beyond Coincidence: Parenting as a Strategic Choice A vast number of parents limit their efforts to teaching and instructing through words while failing to lead by example. They rely on fluctuating daily emotions rather than a focused, long-term goal for their children’s development. According to the sources, many children become who they are by coincidence rather than calculated efforts by their parents. To ...